Kimberly Kory - Dealing with Cancer (or Other Terminal Illness)

Dealing with
Cancer

Dealing with Cancer (or Other Terminal Illness)

I have worked extensively with both patients and families dealing with cancer. I help the family and loved ones work through the grief and teach them new ways to be loving, accepting and supportive. As I know well from personal experience, when a person feels close to death, this is the most important time of life to show love (not fear)—not necessarily through words.

This is the time to drop all theoretical orientations and, instead, to simply be real, genuine and caring. When someone feels close to death, they are closest to their soul/God/higher spirit, wisdom and the internal essence of their true self. The cancer patient, or anyone with a sever illness, can sense your fear, love or support (or whatever you are feeling) as well as their own.

I often find the cancer patient to be stronger than the people around them. Nevertheless, this is a time for him or her to feel important, loved and cherished from the depths of your heart. As the therapist, I can connect deeply with the person who is dying or surviving and all others struggling in this relationship. When relating to the person struggling with cancer, sensitivity and authenticity is key in giving emotional support and helping them develop courage.

Kindly,
Kimberly Kory M.A., L.P.C.C.
Licensed Professional Board-Certified Counselor and Psychotherapist
505-204-4550